Ok first let me wish u a happy new year. May this year 2014 full of success and happiness. May this year better than last year. And may all ur wishes come true. Cliche sangat (^_^)
So tajuk nak world je, mama abah baca tajuk pon dah pegang hanger agaknya , "finish ur study first" kata mama abah. No no i'm not getting married. It is just that a lot of friends and relatives are getting married.
Subhannallah. Dapat invitation x y z are getting married, saw relationship on facebook a b c are married, saw wall post wish for this year is to get married, yes of course im happy for them. It's just make me think, I'm 22 and they are 22, why are they getting married so early. Oh no we are 23 already. Its 2014 =)
Anyway I always have the thought that 26 or 27 should be the ideal age to get married. Or am i the only one thinking like that. But yes jodoh ditangan Allah. We can plan but He is the best planner. So many people are married sampai terkonfius. Last year balik kampung for hari raya, i was really speechless seeing a lot of new faces n keep asking whose husband is that, whose wife is that, whose child is that, oh really she's married, oh he's married, when? A lot of things have changed within a year.
Mambruk alhamdulillah for those who are getting married, already married, planning to get married and wish to get married. I wish u all the best and may last till Jannah insyaAllah =) Ada orang tolong masak, tolong urut kalau penat, kemaskan rumah, buat itu ini. I once thought yes i need a husband, then i think back "oh i just need a maid right now actually haha" elaun JPA xmembenarkan saya mengupah orang gaji. So DIY (do it yourself) everything! I have no experience in marriage, but still I hope and wish may all become a good and responsible husband and wife. Don't forget ur responsibility towards ur spouse coz it will be ask later (^_^) Mabruk!
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought"
"Diantara tanda-tanda kekuasaan Allah ialah Dia menciptakan untukmu isteri-isteri dari jenismu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tenteram kepadanya, dan dijadikan-Nya di antara kamu rasa kasih dan sayang.Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu mengandungi keterangan-keterangan (yang menimbulkan kesedaran) bagi orang-orang yang berfikir."
p/s: Peringatan untuk semua and diri sendiri. Normally tahun baru mesti orang tanya azam apa. It is just that manusia boleh cuba berubah bila2 masa sahaja and tak perlu tunggu tahun baru coz pintu taubat sentiasa terbuka. Kita je macam cheapsmore kejap ada kejap takda, but He is always there for us. May He ease our way dunia and akhirat =)
So good luck everyone!